I was sad and hurt. In jan 3 this year she decided to end our relationship. We havent been in love for a long time now and havent utteredI life you in all this time. Therapy helps and , as I said earlier, I recommend it. I want to give get as much of the world as I can and give her a life worth living. The aim is to show that you are fun to be with and that you know how to have a good time. I could tell that there was more to it thought. What makes it worse is that from talking to him, there are no signs, or anything. Ive been with my fianc 2+ years now & I cheated on him emotionally. Thats when he found out about the cheating. We began making love 3-4 times a week. However, it is healthiest if each person can take responsibility for their share. A girl has guy friends too , he got mad & then I got mad & I ignored him. One day during the 3 weeks that I was away, we got into a really heated argument over the fact that he didnt understand my mission of traveling alone. But I feel I dont have the strength to. You have to do what makes sense to you now. I have referenced while we were dating the good times, and she has mentioned that she was forced to evolve and alludes to the fact that I am stuck in the past. He genuinely tells me that he wants to be with me for the rest of his life. Hi Beth, Thank you so much for hearing and understanding me! The sex will be much better when that happens, I promise you. I dont think you can expect yourself to be able to be lighthearted about all of it when sex is with someone you love, much as you intended it at first. (BTW this guy is just as guilty because he knew she was not single). Our marriage of 39 years has had good times, but I have constantly felt my husbands disconnection in both emotional & sexual intimacy. You made my night truly, I dont even know how I came across this lolbut im here and im reading this thread and I want you to know that you are so wonderfully kind. He eventually got a friend to beg on his behalf. That said, we learned in school that two wrongs dont make a right. He say he dun want to give false hopes and dun want to have any RS involve . I hate to keep saying therapy in this column but I guess thats why God created therapists. So the gut picked her and I saw him clearly he was the guy I saw on fb. We havent talked too often, but these things take time. This was 3 weeks ago. May I recommend a video on my own website called 3 keys to a spectacular marriage? Instead, when we start a relationship in a state of being somewhat on empty then instead of looking for what we can give to the other person, we are always feeling in some way neglected and missing something. You see, he is blocked from his feelings because that is his SAFETY zone. we had fights continuously and we break up then we get back. Unfortunately the job requires very long hauls. She is basically my everything because I have no family in the states so I did everything with her. Im def try to earn his trust back. I felt very low and suicidal for my actions). Next, it makes me wonder about what is it in you that picks two insecure women? But Im at a loss on how to make up for something that is in the past and cannot be changed. We have 2 kids together (2 and 5 years old). Not your neighbours. We started arguing and fighting everyday. My heart and brain are on two different levels right now. When she came back she began talking about me staying behind to see through the short sale on our home and eventually joining her up north. We have had minor breaks but have resolved them and have been together since. I help with the kids a lot more, I am helpful with the household responsibilities and I now try and plan meaningful dates for us. I called the cops on him the last time in 2010-ish and because I was represented by the DAs office and he had hired an attorney the deal was sealed as soon as he hired an attorney. But instead of helping him, I destroyed and hurt his feelings. Yet, of course, there is an equal fear of being alone, so the couple sets up rules just like the one you and your hubby seem to have: dont leave, but dont be too close either. My grandmother was killed in a car accident. I was so lost and confused. but the other girl who means nothing to me is talking to the girl i love and telling her and telling her other stuff thats not true. What should I do? I want to state that my actions/behavior was good, but in my case things were very odd and he wasnt good for me. Also, I told him I dont do anything. Found out i a month pregnant when he got locked up. Him not being sure had really upset me because I had been having a really bad day and I needed him. And neither of us is unhappy it just feels more like were roommates most days. I think we were just at that place where things were going to deepen. Ive dated for a couple years and was in a serious relationship for two years but ended when I wanted marriage and she didnt. I told him at the beginning that I didnt want to sleep with the whole town, that I want to be exclusive with one guy. Beware, however, that this will put a lot more pressure on your shoulders during the course of the date because it is now in your hands whether or not you impress her.. It is really important that the counselor be specifically trained in MARRIAGE & FAMILY THERAPY. What I advise is a really, really competent therapist who will work with the two of you together to help him turn on his feelings (which means helping him overcome his early learning to turn them off). But she has to want it too. I was disappointed and thought this was going to end up just like my previous 3 experiences. How do I make him fall back in love? She claims it was a joke. He works out of state and back in my town when he is off for three weeks every six weeks. It had been over for 3 years. So cold, angry and unforgiving. I hear you on that. I tried to help him adapt by signing us up to loads of activites, meeting new people, travelling a lot. That, too, usually takes therapy. Plus, I just moved out the house and he begged me not to but I had to for me. Hi Lisa, Many disappointments and struggling and putting my whole heart into this relationship I feel I cant any more . He is a wonderful consious man and very independent. I dont see myself with anyone else. Shes an ESFP. I seemed to always get upset and yell at him. We started fighting a lot more, partly due to how unfairly needy and emotional I know Ive been, and partly because he feels trapped in a life he was not ready for. So, Im wondering if that is the case with your situation also. we have a beautiful home thats half way paid for outright, love, attraction, everything? And the same question can be asked of his up and down feelings. If I give her space I feel like she wont be back. He had admitted his faults in the relationship and told me he loved me the best of his ability. What about what I suggested doing things that he cares about? Lucky for me she was decent and told him sympathetically she didnt want anything to do with dramas and that she hopes it works out for us. Why did I say something so bloody stupid?! I got pregnant again in September and lost that on in November:(! I want to fix this so bad, he is the love of my life, and I do not want to lose this person because he really is an amazing man. I was so in love with this man, more so than I was with my husband. A few months after the incident we resumed our relationship. how can i call his attention? Then in July I found out I didnt get into a grad program I had my heart set on. Over the years he has struggled with excessive alcohol abuse and usually I am able to bring it up and he notices its getting worse and fixes it himself. When lead singer Douglas Smokey Scott laid those vocals down, it was because his woman had sliced him up like cold cuts after he had stepped all over her night after night. I did not go into a fit of rage like I did for the prior incident. Im so sorry. The comfortability we had with each other was phenomenal! I took the next half hour trying to explain why I had issue with formal tucked in clothing, I opened up about how I didnt as attractive tucked in due to my waste line recently being larger due to water retention due to some medications I was on. I was ignoring her and thinking that she just needed to grow up and be a stronger woman! What should i do? Im still stuck back at the moment you walked into his LR and he did not hug and kiss you and say to the other girl, Here is my girlfriend, Carmen. And why was she his wallpaper if she just came to visit his mother? I have been playing professionally as a musician since I was 15 years old and have devoted SO much of my time and mental energy to improving and pushing forward as a musician. I just cant trust him fully I always feel hell do something to me again. Dr. Deb be honest please if they got together in June is it true and possible that like my husband said he is in love with the other women. First of all, why dont you discuss this with your therapist? The last year i found myself crying each time after we had sex (which was rare) and i kept saying things these past few years to hint that babies or marriage is not for me-Just didnt want to rock the boat i guess, i was okay in a way just passing time without dealing. To see him with another woman would kill me all over again. I suppose Im worried about the future. 5. Not only that, but I dont think I could handle it with how much I care for him. It appears that he says he wants to try, but he isnt really even trying. I find myself very hyper-sensitive when questioned by her as I feel I should not have to tell her everything I do or think or say to other people, maybe she is just asking out of curiosity but I dont like being questionedI had enough of it from the time before, how do I move past this??? The fact that you have a degree in psychology doesnt mean that you dont have feelings! Cater to him and perhaps that will show him that you are not selfish after all. We have been together now for almost a year and he has treated me like sh** the whole time! we tried to end things on numerous occasions but because we felt so deeply about each other, we continued. Another idea among the 15 ideas for a perfect first date is to dress to impress After I hurt him too many times, he put up a wall. The challenges you face in your marriage might leave you feeling like the union is over and that it's time to separate. He wanted me back just as much as I wanted to be with him as well. Im working on me I dont want to lose him..Ive seen him once in almost 3 weeks, since I got out. I knew that I loved my wife. Well after our split I took it very hard and did soul searching and trying to figure out why I couldnt get rid of the anger and what felt like a demon that lived in my head even though I had told her several times I would change and I honestly wanted to,but couldnt. I wish I could make her see Im not that person and I wish I never went down that road. I surprised him at his house and I found him in the living room talking to another girl. Promised to change. Any suggestions, you think we can get back together, what we need to do, to felt in love again or gain his love back again ,is very difficult for me.I feel very sad and is hard for me to let go, with out trying ,emotional not doing good. He told her he missed the good times. i think i just wanted attention, after i was out of my home and lonely. Suddenly she called me 2 weeks ago on Thursday at 6PM but i didnt answer. i know hes really hurt thats why he doesnt feels like talking to me that much . I would ask him to come along to some of the events. After I discovered some more of his hurtful ways with communicating with other women I moved out. But before we started dating I was originally in a relationship with another man. My inability to respect her needs or place her needs on an equal playing field as mine is why we are here in the first place. I keep telling her that it takes time and maybe the feelings of support will lead to more feelings, at least I hope so. I was heart broken beyond words. And they are important for your own happiness in life. Your ex bf is angry with u, because now he has upset you and mom. I only know this because she told me. I was distraught and when confronted, they both lied, until eventually i got the truth, which was that he had been sleeping with us both for around 3 weeks. Please help me, Give him some space ask him if he is happier around somebody else maybe he has love for his ex that he doesnt have for u but u have to ask to find out you are lucky that u have him around to talk with cuz the man I love doesnt even want to talk he just plain out says leave me alone dont talk to me. Permission to publish granted to GoodTherapy.org. I was naive in thinking that not reaching my goals wouldnt hurt anyone. 15 First Date Ideas that Can Spark a Love Connection Ive told him that it will never happen again. He stopped and has only done it once since. Generally in cases like this BOTH people have something to learn about life. I just wonder if im being honest with myself and her about where i am emotionally. Im afraid to say you will have to make other living arrangements for yourself or for him in order to get the message across. His parents think that everything was/is & always has been my fault. As he drew away from me , I confronted him to what was really wrong with him, he told me he fell out of love with me. Im not sure why it needs to I fell in love with him since 6 months ago was not straight away we have been having a physical relationship for nearly 2 years! He has never lied to me and usually says what he means, but Im lost. They started chatting a bit online, and over the past few months, have become, in my wifes words, best friends. And know, there is a time to speak and a time to stay silent. but thats not an issue for me. We have been divorced since 2007 and we still went back and forth trying to make it work but prior to getting married, I had called off a traditional church wedding (which case was what his mother wanted to begin with/interfering in-laws) but back to the point. And feelings, understanding ones own and where they come from, is often hard to do because the origin could be painful. Move on! The ex did a lot of really terrible things with manipulating them etc. Since then there have been a couple of other moments where I have got drunk and hurt him. It is not on the surface. Can you get him to see a therapist? HI my comment is really good information but when someone wearing those shoes is really hard to do things the right way because is too much pain and feel desperate to get the person you love back is a lot things you dont know how to deal with this is my storie ,I met this wonderful guy 17 years ago but 4 years ago he desired he want to go back to school we didnt have the money but i support his desition so we move to another state but i was having trouble find it a job so i desired to move back and leave my husband and my youngest daughter together so i was working to jobs to support him for almost 4 years now hes done with school and find a job but has not been paying the much so is hard to survive we 3 together so i still at the same place working 2 jobs trying to support my self and also helping him when i can well now after 4 years been a part he say he doesnt love me anymore and i am devastated because i feel betrayed for the whole situation. I just want a fresh start for my life. He thinks there are more skeletons in my closet and that I didnt just make out with these guys. I am also happy to work with people via Skype. I want to rip the pain away. They are only friends nothing more. When we first started dating there was an incident where the woman from the previous relationship he was in, was impregnated by him, and she coincidently found out in the beginning of our relationship. but recently, within the last few months I have made so many huge mistakes by saying so many hurtful things and though I am deeply ashamed and regretful of my actions and my hurtful words, I know that sometimes people cant ever be forgiven and cant ever be loved again. Hi Uncertain, I feel that this is the best option, seeing as neither of us deserves to live awkwardly and miserably in the same house trying to raise a baby together, but alone, and neither of us intends to leave. Please look for a cognitive behavioral therapist or a solution-focused therapist if you want to see someone in your area face to face. I think its about abuse willful, intentional abuse (which you refer to as betrayal), and not ever making amends for it which is the essential cause of the suffering. And due to that I was a bad father and boyfriend because I wasnt doing the camping and hiking and other fun things I loved to do and my family wanted to do. Are those words true or just hurt/anger talking. Even though he is doing everything in his power to show me his love I feel like I the hurt and pain has made me numb. Shes very ungrateful in our last meetings. A big part of therapy, maybe the biggest according to research spanning over 20 years, is the relationship with the therapist. She doesnt need the marriage counseling, anyway. I do have anxiety issued (have OCD) and borderline depression and i dont know if i should read into my sadness or not. But before she passed out I asked who the heck was the guy?. Is this a bad habit he picked up from going with the wrong friends? A lot of the times we fight he packs his stuff up and is gone about a day or so. We said our goodbyes late afternoon & Peter remained with our friend. It wasnt true i was just panicked and blank minded. I made the biggest mistake of my life by cheating on my spouse. He would react and tell me he believed me. Hi I been married 4 years with my husband and we have a daughter. Being disrespectful is not putting on the table what is bothering you. She also said that she has been feeling like this for a while but like I describe above showed no signs (that I picked up on). i begged him to let us work on it but when he comes home he cant even look at me he looks so guilty like he is having an affair. We both have grown a lot and both are willing to do the work . My wife and I have been together for 17 years total, married for the last 8. I know that trust and love can be rebuilt, and at one time I wished that my story wouldve been a success story. You have a heart and soul; everyone does. I told him I dont love him anymore. She lives next door with a guy and told my BF that we should switch partners. We finally met in September. I constantly feel ill & know that my mind is in dark turmoil. He did little stuff like drew roses cut them out and tied a ribbon to send me for v day. But Im hopeless now, because he was so good and I dont know if Ill be able to get him back. For more than a year now, he has been the perfect boyfriend who has treated me above and beyond, showered me with love and affection, who accepts and understands that I still cant trust him and that I still get mad at him for his previous actions every now and then. for me talking a little really dint matter . I want it yesterday. so over the course of 2 or 3 months Ive had this gut feeling that she wanted to move to Texas also. At times I really feel like deep down he still loves me and I want to fight to save our family and at times I feel like letting him go. You and your partner have a strong, committed relationship. A few years ago I spent a year abroadwe still tried to maintain the relationship although I didnt put much effort into it due to my then selfish nature. I moved to my mothers the next day. I once said I hoped we could get back what we had and he said me too. Over the year there have been some good times but also bad times where I panic, start to really worry and spiral into a depression. But I feel where Ive grown and changed, he hasnt. She will be going over to her friends after the kids go to bed for the foreseeable future. When we first met I fell for him instantly. [7] Hi IDK Even a rough idea of a timeframe would be helpful to me in deciding on whether I stick it out or bow out now. Ever since we had that fall out hes like a changed man. I hit below the belt a lot but I can own the fact that I took him for granted but he also took me for granted. Any advice will be greatly appreciated. I guess he got tired of having to reassure me he was where he wanted to be and that I was who he wanted because without me realizing it I have pushed him away. And I wouldnt just tell I would insult and call her names no one should ever be called. Each time we have been intimate since the separation he says he can never feel the same about me or get over it. It sounds like a good beginning to be helpful with household things, but only a beginning. I told him of all the things he used to do that made me unhappy (though I was happy sometimes, just not for long periods) then ended with the discoveries I made..He was pis. She is being really adamant about not forgiving herself. I dont know what to do here. Absolutely! Thats 45 minutes walk. This was all last month (August). He asked why now? She will not believe me. I asked to see his text messages he sends to her and he said no. That is what therapy is for. But i loved him. We can hurt a person who is vulnerable considerably more than a person who has her guard up all the time. So it seems to me you should work on healing yourself first before complicating matters with relationships. Does that make sense to you? but i messed up at the beginning of the relationship. Can I say something here? What can I do, how can he find a way to clear the emotional block he has inside his heart towards me? And he said he didnt blame me if I never wanted to talk to him again. Could it be that some message in the back of your mind says you are not entitled to happiness? Hello, Dr. Deb How long do I stay silent? All Rights Reserved. But I didnt like that he was still entertaining her calls. I hurt him so deeply. Bt last month my own cousin brother seduce me and unluckily I had sex with him..as I was very much tensed by this.. And my boyfriend recognised this and I told him everything and now he break up with me He hates me so much.. I am glad I came across this thread because I am having trouble fully trusting my boyfriend again. One of which killed a friendship with a guy ive known since childhood. How do I show her that Ive changed for her? If this is something where the two of you have remained together and do in all honesty still love each other, then I definitely think that it is possible to fall in love with that same person all over again. I cannot believe he dumped me so easily with no care or feeling. What would a real connection to someone feel like? conventional wisdom says to move on, but im not interested in doing that. It tore me apart! I said no we need to talk it out. But i stayed around. Any advice or suggestions will be very welcomed and acceped. Man. But my boyfriend and i decided to try and fix things. Any advice as to how I can help him understand why I cant be sexually vulnerable at this time? I have been married for 12 years next week. She says that even though I have changed she is afraid to fall in love with me again. I could have stopped this from happening because it is illegal to take kids more than 70 miles from their parent. I just hope that I havent done so much damage already that it is has become irreversible! Her response discouraged me. We were both very much in love. He/after cold-turkey stopping the drugs & drinking turned him into a person who I did not know anymore, at ALL! And i really did appreciate everything he did for me and my 3 Beautiful kids. Well time wanton and his ex became a thorn in my side along with his crazy mom. We have had a lot of talks about how he now understands what I was feeling in the past and he has gone above and beyond to show that he loves me, that he treasures me, that Im the most important thing in the world to him. He was intimate with this woman who is married with children in my own bed as well as hers. This is killing me, he would do anything for me, and I know this, but I dont believe it. I tried to tell him how hurt I was but he felt if he showed me he loved me then I shouldnt worry about his crazy ex. You could be questioning your feelings because maybe deep down you dont think you deserve something good in your life. I kiiled what we had, and it was amazing. What should I do? We hit it off instantly. I see her on Saturday night and she holds me and says I feel great to her, but she seems distant. Over the past 3 years I have relapsed off and on with marijuana. One day were happy, the next were borderline broken up. she said that I should make sure Im coming close for my daughter and not for her. I decided to give him space , no talking or texting for a DAT , just to see if he would miss me. I want him home more. Thank you dr deb i really appreciate your answer i am desperate to get my husband back the thing is i dont have place in AZ to go and he doesnt offer me to move with them i do not know how can i stared because i will have to live my job behind and i do not know how stared again with out support any suggestions how can i make him interested on me again .any ideas when you say try to be sexy, how can i approach the situation he say hes not connected to me emotional and dont want to have anything with me and told me never make him happy how can i call his attention again because feel like we talk just as a friend that it nothing else .i feel if i dont do anything and i do not talk to him i feel desperate and also i feel like i am losing him day by day is any good place in AZ for good therapy we both can attend or how we can start all over again what kind the things i should You got hurt and betrayed. Dont settle for the person you are because youre in a relationship. 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